{"id":2976,"date":"2019-09-09T14:19:37","date_gmt":"2019-09-09T14:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ona19.journalists.org\/?p=2976"},"modified":"2019-09-11T05:15:31","modified_gmt":"2019-09-11T05:15:31","slug":"samantha-raglands-guide-for-extroverts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ona19.journalists.org\/2019\/09\/09\/samantha-raglands-guide-for-extroverts\/","title":{"rendered":"Samantha Ragland\u2019s guide for extroverts at ONA19"},"content":{"rendered":"
Samantha Ragland, ONA Local organizer and Women’s Leadership Accelerator alumnae, attended her first ONA conference in 2014. She assembled this guide to offer strategies for extroverts to be A+ conference-goers and make the most of ONA19 \u2014 and it’s a companion piece to ONA Executive Director\/CEO Irving Washington\u2019s guide for introverts<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n I\u2019ll be the first to admit that attending ONA five years ago changed my professional life. Honestly, it introduced<\/i> me to my professional life, and I\u2019ll be darned if I don\u2019t share that gospel with any and every journalist I meet. It\u2019s this enthusiasm and subsequent ONA conferences (ONA19 makes six) that has led my colleagues to jokingly call me the \u201cMayor of ONA.\u201d<\/p>\n One step into the conference hotel and it is on, baby! You\u2019ll likely hear me shriek someone\u2019s name before you ever see my face, and once you see me, I\u2019m likely hugging someone so hard I\u2019ve dipped them nearly to the ground in a sort of overjoyed mambo-tango number. I am this kind of extrovert. And if you are a \u201cjust add water\u201d kind of instant extrovert like me, this guide is for you.<\/p>\n Because let\u2019s be real: Even the Energizer Bunny\u2019s batteries run out.<\/p>\n As an extrovert, I\u2019ve learned that I can\u2019t be on all the time, which means I\u2019ve also learned the value of strategic pacing, mindful rest and concentrated dialogue. These three things have elevated my experience at ONA\u2019s conference, and other such professional development opportunities, from work vacation to work sabbatical.<\/p>\n From one proud extrovert to another, here\u2019s a three-step guide on how we can do conferences better.<\/p>\n Special thanks to our ONA19 sponsors<\/a>, including:<\/p>\n ONA19 is huge, and no amount of extrovert-ism is enough to outweigh the importance of a conference plan \u2014 before you get there, while you\u2019re there and when you\u2019re not there.<\/p>\n The conference can quickly become a blur for both extroverts and introverts if we\u2019re not careful. Both personality types need time to digest what they\u2019ve learned, remember who they\u2019ve met and draft how they\u2019ll use it all come next Monday morning<\/a>.<\/p>\n Do you, boo, just know this: Extroverts can be wallflowers, too. After all, ONA19 is as much about the new connections you make as it is about the best practices you learn. We\u2019re all responsible for the longevity of this industry, and there are few safer places to be completely you than at these after-hours ONA19 events.<\/p>\n Extroverts are often drawn to other extroverts. This is all dandy, but imagine all the rad people you\u2019re missing out on because they\u2019ve got different feathers than you. Case in point: when I talk to ONA Executive Director\/CEO and self-proclaimed introvert Irving Washington<\/a>, it’s one of the best, most brilliant and equally humorous conversations I have at ONA\u2019s conference every year.<\/p>\n Extroverts and introverts may be on opposite sides of the spectrum, but they can both glean so much from one another if given the time.<\/p>\n So you, extrovert reading this, look out for peeps with feathers different than yours. Be open to forgoing lunch with the usual suspects for an invite to or from someone you don\u2019t already know. If you\u2019re an ONA conference regular, watch for the 1s and 2s on badges. And no matter how difficult it may be for you to lower your multi-stimuli sensibilities, wherever you are and whoever you\u2019re with during the conference, be completely there \u2014 don\u2019t allow your eyes or ears to wander out of one conversation in search of another.<\/p>\n If there\u2019s one thing most extroverts were born to do, it\u2019s work a room and be the life of the party. But as my daddy used to tell me, \u201cSammy, you were born with two ears and one mouth for a reason. You gotta listen twice as much as you speak.\u201d Okay, Daddy, it may have taken thirty-something-odd years, but I hear you!<\/p>\n Extroverts, we\u2019ve got stories for days. We really do, but man, so does everyone else. We have to be careful that we don\u2019t turn what was supposed to be a dialogue into a monologue!<\/p>\n<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
Have a \u201cpre-game, halftime and post-game\u201d plan<\/h3>\n
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Have a \u201cseek new feathers\u201d mentality<\/h3>\n
Have a \u201ctwo ears, one mouth\u201d strategy<\/h3>\n